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rishaa
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if d son is doin it...ok maybe coz he takes his mum 4 granted
but y would a girl marry jobless guy who wantz a fair skin bride
for a stupid excuse of he himself being darker in tone?
n d best part both wanna sit at home n do nothin?
the mum must be realy working herself to death to support
such a family institution. 
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BruceLee
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no i didnt mean to say this lady is tipuing.....but im surprised tht she could afford sunway coll......being a single mom....doing odd jobs...gt own hse & even jewellery to sell off.....i knw mothers sacrifice a lot 4 their children.....i dont deny tht fact....
nvmind srimala u re so patient enough to listen to her story & offer food 4 her....ppl nowadays dont even bother to get to knw ppl who aren't in the same level as them..... |
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carnby29
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| Posted: Thu Jan 31, 2008 6:28 pm Post subject: |
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She has done her duty as a mother faithfully without doubt.
The ball is now on the sons side of the court..... |
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BruceLee
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| Posted: Thu Jan 31, 2008 6:33 pm Post subject: |
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| rishaa wrote: |
but y would a girl marry jobless guy who wantz a fair skin bride
for a stupid excuse of he himself being darker in tone?
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rishaa....u knw y???.....so tht his offsprings would hv at least 50% chances to b born fair coloured.....he wan 2 change his future generation's skin colour.....future planning lah...
....nowadays al tamil mvie heroines also fair skinned....the tamilians themselves re promoting this colour only.... but heroes stil gt dark ones lah...so bottomline is....the chick must b fair but it doesn't matter if the buffalo is dark....  |
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blackmafia25
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| Posted: Thu Jan 31, 2008 11:09 pm Post subject: |
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....nowadays al tamil mvie heroines also fair skinned....the tamilians themselves re promoting this colour only.... but heroes stil gt dark ones lah...so bottomline is....the chick must b fair but it doesn't matter if the buffalo is dark....
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BruceLee
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nandri nandri  |
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BruceLee
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| Posted: Thu Jan 31, 2008 11:40 pm Post subject: |
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| sorry for running out of topic.......... |
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VJeyaa
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While I feel sorry to hear abt this story, but at the same time I feel that she has not exercised good parenting skills. Good parenting is not about giving everything for the child everytime the child wants and everything the child wants. Strictly disciplining the child to make him / her a useful citizen is very much the responsibility of any parent. Doesnt matter whether its poor parent, rich parent, single parent or double parent. A good parent will make sure that the child is well brought up with the necessary knowledge and discipline which will help him / her become a responsible adult. Pampering the child with the excuse that he is the only child or that he doesnt have a father, etc is a sure fire recipe to spoil the future of him / her. I know a few cases that happened exactly like this. How the child is brought up is how the child will behave when grown. There is no point in regretting later on.
This case of the lady babying not only the son but also the DIL, is an extreme case of unjustified pampering and a serious lack of parenting skill. This should not be mistaken with parental love. Parental love does not condone the bad behaviour of the children. Parental love will in fact ensure that the parent love the child enough to discipline them. "Spare the rod and spoil the child" that is the time tested cliche that must have been coined by a very wise parent.
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Neminath
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When he was hungry, she gave him fish but failed to teach him how to fish.His life now is a result of that failure.Vjeya has summed it up nicely.
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virgon
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| agree with vj and nemi..... |
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